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Dierks Bentley Used To Send His Future Wife Mixtapes

Dierks Bentley recalls one special Valentine’s Day gift he got for his wife Cassie before the two were married. He told us,“When ‘What Was I Thinkin’’ was released in 2003,…

Dierks Bentley Showed Early Love With His Future Wife Through Mixtapes
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Dierks Bentley recalls one special Valentine's Day gift he got for his wife Cassie before the two were married.

He told us,“When ‘What Was I Thinkin’’ was released in 2003, I didn’t know what my life would look like, and all of a sudden, I found myself out on the road full-time, just gone. So, the place where I was staying, I had some friends pack it up and move it into a storage facility…and in there I found some letters that she and I had written back and forth when we were dating. I was working at The Nashville Network and she was working out in San Francisco and found some letters I had written her and I’d gotten back and some stuff she’d sent me, including a CD of songs she’d been listening to, back when you made CD mixes and there’s like these three hearts on that CD."

He continued, "I just found that it was so meaningful for me: those gifts you give each other before any money, before anything else was going on, just music, giving of mixtapes was so cool. She reminded me of a mixtape that I had sent her. I’d sent it to her via FedEx, because it was so important she get this as quickly as possible. This was before you could send songs over the internet. I think the most interesting thing I’ve given her and she’s given me was just mixtapes, because there’s nothing like music to put into words and the thoughts you have in your head that you can’t formulate yourself.”

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